Woman sleeps with 100 married men after discovering her husband's affair


Woman sleeps with 100 married men after discovering her husband’s affair

Devastated to discover her husband was cheating on her, this woman avenged his adultery by having affairs of her own.

A woman whose oil tycoon husband cheated on her with other women got revenge by having lots of affairs, too.

Gweneth Lee, 47, from Chelsea, London, was devastated when partner Robert began seeing other women in the last years of their marriage. She thought she would remain loyal to him for the rest of her life, but his betrayal shattered her faith in men.

Gweneth began having affairs, too, to avenge his adultery – and liked it so much that she carried on cheating after he died.

“I was very happily married to Robert for years. He was a high-flying oil executive who travelled all over the world for work,” she told the Sun Online.

“But I discovered in the last years of our marriage that he had been cheating on me with several women. He had a girl in every port, so to speak, and would regularly have flings when he was away on business trips.

Gweneth Lee and her late husband Robert.

Gweneth Lee and her late husband Robert.

“I was devastated at first because I genuinely believed in monogamy at the time and thought that I had met the man of my dreams.

“I confronted him and he admitted his betrayal and basically said that there was no way he was ever going to be able to stay faithful, and he would rather be truthful with me. He wanted to stay in the marriage and for me to basically put up with his cheating.

“He was an incredible guy and I loved being married to him, so my attitude was: ‘If you cannot beat them, join them’.”

Gweneth wanted the same arrangement as Robert – a series of no-strings affairs largely revolving around sex.

She joined IllicitEncounters.com – the UK’s leading dating website for married people.

When she logged on to the site, she realised to her horror that her husband was already registered on there, under a different name. He had been using the same site to meet several of his lovers.

Gweneth signed up and was soon as busy as her husband when it came to extramarital affairs.

Gweneth's husband was OK with her affairs.

Gweneth's husband was OK with her affairs.


“This was my first affair and clearly it was a big deal for me because it was the first time I had cheated on Robert,” she said. “My lover was a 40-year-old lawyer trapped in a sexless marriage with three children in their teens.

“He had made the mistake of marrying his childhood sweetheart and had only really had one lover. He’d had a classic middle life crisis and realised that he had missed out on his youth and wanted to play the field for the first time.

“He had the perfect cover for meetings because he was often away at courts around the Home Counties (of England) representing clients. We’d meet in hotels for sex and then he would return home to his wife.”

She also said there was an “accountant with a very high sex drive who couldn’t get all the passion he wanted at home.”

“He was a bit of an anorak and used to keep a spreadsheet recording every time he and his wife had sex.

“He wasn’t the most exciting man the world but he was very wealthy – he ran his own firm – and he was very generous with me, treating me to diamonds, designer dresses and nights in the finest hotels. I got a wonderful gift every time we met up.”

Gweneth starting cheating to pay her husband back but ended up loving it.

Gweneth starting cheating to pay her husband back but ended up loving it.


“This was with a television executive behind some of the biggest shows in the UK,” she said.

“He was a womaniser who had slept with several actresses who had appeared in some of his dramas. He had a multiple lovers and a very understanding wife who turned a blind eye to his cheating.”

All three lovers were approved by Gwyneth’s husband Robert, who by then was seriously ill with cancer.

He died 10 years ago from the disease but rather than using his death to turn over a new leaf, Gwyneth just carried on as she had done before.

“Robert had shattered my faith in men and the lovers I had seen in the last years of our marriage just made my realise that monogamy is a completely unrealistic expectation,” she said.

“Most men are not to be trusted, and who seriously wants to have sex with the same person for the last 50 years of their life? It is not natural – we are programmed to seek mates and find the very best match. Sex to me is like the survival of the fittest.

“I stayed on IllicitEncounters and just carried seeing various married men, and I am still on the site today.

Gweneth has had dozens of affairs.

Gweneth has had dozens of affairs.

“It suits me – I get all the fun you get from a great love affair and none of the drudgery.”

Gweneth doesn’t think she “will ever stop having affairs”, adding: “I feel absolutely no guilt over my life choices. All the men I have slept with would have cheated with someone else if they had not met me.

“I don’t think I will ever settle down again into a wholly monogamous relationship. I have had boyfriends since Robert’s death – including some lovely long-term relationships.

“Each time I have told my lover that I didn’t believe in monogamy and would struggle to stay faithful. I stressed that I would always be honest with them and they were free to see other women, too.

“Each time, they gave me the green light to carry on having affairs. And in most cases, they were either already seeing other women or were that way inclined.

“I tend to only put the ultimatum to men who are on the same page as me.”

Gwyneth has previously claimed that she is good for unhappy marriages – and helps keep families together.

This story originally appeared on The Sun
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